Christian view of love

Christian view of love

In Christianity, love comes from God. The love of man and woman and the unselfish love of others are often contrasted as “ascending” and “descending” love but ultimately its the same thing. Christians believe that to love God with all your heart, mind and strength and love your neighbour as you would yourself are the two most important things in life. It is also the greatest commandment of the Jewish Torah. The Apostle Paul glorified love as the most important virtue of all. He described…

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How do you know if your love is romantic?

How do you know if your love is romantic?

This type of love is not just an emotion, it’s also a craving. There is a strong emotional craving, the love drive is even stronger than the sex drive. Possessiveness. When you desire only that one person, you know you are in deep romantic love. You want to spend quality time together other than sex. You get lost in conversations and forget about the hours passing. You want to honestly listen to each other’s feelings and make each other happy. He or she motivates you…

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love.org.za valentines day

Happy Valentines Day

So for those of you who don’t know what tomorrow (16 February) is, let me enlighten you. It’s Valentines Day. Yes the old age tradition has returned for another year. It’s a day filled with Valentines Day gifts and spending time with your other half. Unfortunately, there are some who doesn’t have any plants. Did you remember to buy your girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife or fiancée a gift? No matter. It’s easy to do something on the last minute. Just go down to your nearest…

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Japanese cultural view of love

Japanese Cultural view of love

The Japanese language uses three words to convey the English equivalent of love. Love covers a wide range of emotions and bevioral phenomena. There are nuances that distinguish them from the three terms. The term ai (愛), is often associated with maternal love or selfless love. It originally referred to beauty and it was often used in religious context. Following the Meiji Restoration 1868, the term became associated with love in order to translate Western literature. Before the Japanese were influenced by Western culture, the…

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Free Dating Website Reviews

Dating Singles The first completely free dating website we will be looking at is Dating Singles. The Dating Singles website is for people looking to develop romantic relationships. The dating site is completely free and there are quite a few high quality male and female profiles on the website.   Flirt The Second website we are looking at today, is the flirt.co.za website. The flirt.co.za website has links to adult dating, romantic dating, and general flirting! The dating website is completely free and is good…

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Love quotes

Love quotes

The following love quotes come from a small little box that came up during a thorough search through some personal items. This small box held a huge number of cards and loads of lovely things. We’ll share some of these love quotes with you. “Since the day I have met you, I cry a little less, laugh little harder and smile more.” “You have turned me into a woman I never thought I could be. I did not ever think I would fall this deep…

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The meaning of love

The meaning of love

The meaning of love. All of us have asked this question probably hundreds of times and we don’t have an answer. The basics might be spot on but we don’t know the true meaning of love or its purpose. After some digging (and soul searching), we’ve found out what it means but it’s still pretty vague. Love is complete acceptance: When you love someone and accept them without any conditions, any expectations to change and loving them for begin just them. That is true love.…

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Love at first sight

Love at first sight: a scientific explanation

Love at first sight is commonly used when you fall in love with someone by seeing them for the first time. It is also very common in Western literature, movies,television programs, anime or even video games. Explanation of love at first sight. Biologists believe that love is fundamentally a biological construct other than a cultural one. That is because the capacity for love is found in all human cultures. This behaviour is similarly found in some other animals, like prairie voles. In humans the purpose…

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How do you know if your love is romantic?

Love Tips

The following love tips is not based on any studies or input from multiple individuals. It is mainly a personal assessment.  The reason for these love tips, are not to make you feel stupid but it’s aim is to help you with your relationship problems. Work on yourself first if you want to rebuild your love life. Two people in a relationship has to work together. Do something loving for yourself and then your partner. Remember that two broken people, cannot fix each other. Always…

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Differences between fake love and real love

Differences between fake love and real love

Today, we will have a look at the differences between fake love and real love. Most of us struggle to understand how it works and so we end up in a fake love scenario. We are constantly being accused and so forth. Let’s have a look at the major differences between fake love and real love in order to see the truth. True love. Fake love. True love is always open and honest. Fake love love plays games, hides emotions and manipulates the emotions of…

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